All of us with you saw the ridiculous picture where on the one hand a beautiful dress, ideal suitable for a figure. While on the other hand the picture as this dress in reality looks on the woman. Many women feel the same deep disappointment, being mistaken in the partners and potential husbands.

Main reasons for discrepancy of women’s expectations and reality.

1. An object does not correspond to a life situation

You put efforts, make on him an impression, try to catch in any ways him – to the house, in the life or in the bed. And what your disappointment from the fact that the partner just does not fit into your life situation. Or you in him. You just do not suit one another and speak different languages.

2. The woman idealizes the partner

And as soon as begins to communicate closer with him, faces that need infinitely of the partner appears to remake and improve. What demands great female efforts and often it is just senseless.

3. At the woman the patience stock comes to an end

And when, it seems, everything is clear and predictable, at the woman the demo show comes to the end, and she expects that the partner will accept her any, facing scandals and misunderstanding.

4. The woman continues to wait for the prince

She guesses, studies astrology, changes herself if only to meet the person from the imaginations. And the more she is engaged in it, the she meets less suitable men. Because nobody corresponds to this medal sample of the prince.

5. Some women think out the image

And this image does not correspond to reality at all, and the woman lives in illusion, touching improper partners. We attract in life of the one someone we are. And if we at all female appeal only hide personal uncertainty and the underestimated self-assessment, that is probability that in your life only men not successful, with dependences and simply not meeting your expectations will appear.

If we want to build something real then we have to check the dreams and desires for the principle of reality. How to do it?

• Describe the man and a relationship which you want to have in the life. 
• Find in your environment those at someone so. If in an environment there is no such couple, look for those someone you just know, and you are sure that at them so. Of course, the book love and passions from feature films promote female imagination, but they absolutely block reasonable criticism. And the woman remains alone, in the illusory expectations.
• Describe in detail the program, the scenario of a relationship which are pleasant to you and by which you are guided. Try to be objective and honest in the judgments. Reveal 7 important points of what is essentially important for you within relationship.
• Let’s read the man, independent of a situation. To any to receive feedback on the expectations.
• Get up to the place of your potential partner and estimate – and you meet his expectations? Whether you suit that wonderful guy whom you to yourself draw? Probably, find what should be corrected either in you, or in your expectations concerning the potential partner.

 The most widespread problem now in psychological practice when the woman expects to marry and start a family, and in reality builds such requirements to marry never. That is to live alone more habitually and more conveniently. However social pressure is so big – “all girlfriends on couples”, and the overestimated women’s expectations create a unique opportunity to be in an eternal condition of search, at the same time to be a free and independent woman.